Day 1: Boulder Canyon, Bull Pass, maybe Dutchman east to first sight of water near Cavalry and Dutchman, maybe as far as Charlesbois so 8-10 miles
Day 2: Backtrack a little on Dutchman, Dutchman west, Terrapin, Bluff Spring, Dutchman to LaBarge Spring, maybe 8 miles
Day 3: Dutchman to Cavalry to Boulder Canyon back to Marina, maybe 9 miles
There aren't enough water reports that I have to recommend something else at this time. LaBarge has water and Charlesbois is pretty reliable. Hopefully this should steer you away from the worst catclaw. I guarantee you'll still be hating catclaw when you're done though. It's a bit of an odd loop but I'm trying to camp you next to water each night. If someone would report if there is water in Angel Basin I'd recommend Rogers-Frog-Reavis, but if there's no water in Angel you have to go quite a ways to get some. You need a high clearance to get to Rogers Trough.
If there is water for Day 1 this is a nicer loop, however I haven't been out there to confirm. If there is no water nearby you are a ways from another reliable source.
Day 1: Peralta Trail, camp at intersection w/ Dutchman, 6 miles
Day 2: Dutchman to Boulder Canyon to Cavalry to Dutchman, camp at LaBarge, 10 miles?
Day 3: Dutchman to Bluff Springs to Peralta TH: 6 miles?
Hmmm, 3 days and you're going to get into areas that are still crappy from the fire. I plan to do the following someday, but I'm pretty sure it isn't the nicest loop for bringing a wife:
Day 1: Half Moon, Rock Creek, Divide Trail...south til find water to camp
Day 2: Divide Trail, find water near or south of Windsor Spring
Day 3: Take it home on the Y-Bar
I have no water reports to know if this is feasible right now. If there is no water I have no idea where you go, except for Day 2 end.
For all hiking right now bring a water filter and expect some pools to be scummy unless you filter directly from the springs.
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