Ben is a good looking young man, takes after his Daddy. It's nice that Ben will be stationed close to home, I'm sure you're happy about that. How cool, I remember my first duty station, but it wasn't state side and that was fine by me! I wanted to get as far away from my family as possible; we weren't really close

My first and only permanent duty station was in K-town (kaiserslauturn, Germany) I loved it, and I hated it. I was not a marine, I was in the Army HHD 108th ADA brigade, I was a pencil pusher, and ran the mail room for the Brigade. I also served as a fill in secretary for the Major in the S1 section (paper pushers) of the Brigade, and for Colonel Butterworth and his Lt. Colonel underneath him. However, most of my time was spent in the field as part of the roving guards, assigned to a 50 cal; not fun! When I wasn't in the field, much on the time I would be TDY competing on the Machine Gun Competition team, (not my choice, I was a good shot and my First sergeant put it in just that manner). There was only two other females on the team besides me, the rest were all men. We competed against French and German military teams, and since there were no female accommodations on their bases, us women were treated like Queens! We stayed in nice hotels, ate in nice restaurants, and were showed around the towns we went to by our Colonels, Lt. Colonels, and other high ranks affiliated with the competitions. Our poor fellow teammates (the men), had to suffer, staying in the barracks, sleeping in bunks, and eating mess hall food

Sorry about that, but the men and women in the service had a love/hate relationship with each other.
I loved the military and serving for my country, but there were a lot of things that happened that gave me a sour opinion about women serving in the military, there is definitely a place for them, but they should really be forewarned what it will REALLY be like, before they sign those papers and take that oath.
I'm happy for you and your family, that Ben will be so close to home.