My first trip would only be a 3 day trip. Have all gear planed out for the trip and is as follows:
Deuter Futura Pro 42 Pack, Big Agnes Sunnyside tent w/foot print and fly, Alps Mountaineering sleeping pad, Big Agnes horse thief 35* down sleeping bag, Marmot sharp point softshell, waterproof poncho, 2 pairs bxer brfs, 2 pairs hiking socks, 1 pair hiking pants, 2 thermal shirts, Underarmour cold weather gear top & bottom, fleece gloves, first aid kit, Nikon monarch bino's, Katadyn water filter, alcohol stove with wind screen, 700ml Ti pot & spork, PT headlamp, Fenix flashlight, GPS & extra batteries, lighter, and knife. Also have other small stuff packed such as toothbrush & toothpaste, digicam, butt wipe, baby wipes, and 2 Nalgene bottles.
Figured I would pack a sammich in with me for lunch the first day and then the menu looks like this for the following 2 days.
Tent went from humongous looking thing in greenish yellow bag to this

All my clothes minus jacket fit into the sleeping bag compartment along with my compressed sleeping bag.
Everything all packed and arranged neatly in the pack.
Finally to test it out and see what it weighs out at. Not bad.....28.4 lbs. Figure strap on my hiking boots and some full water bottles and I should be close to 32 - 33 lbs.