First of all, :thanx: all for your help as I was able to complete my first 2-nite backpacking trip to Fossil Springs. I have to thank Kat for training me in the nuances of real hiking and of course, Wendy for her kindness and willingness to take a newbie on my first backpack experience. Also, thanks to Mike for his guidance with the gear. Without HAZ, none of this would have ever happened as you all gave me the desire and ability to kick it up a notch from casual to real hiking, trail or no trail.
I ended up getting a small Osprey Aura 65 backpack. I haven't decided if the size is right as the fit, though better than on the way down, was pretty tough on my shoulder blade muscles on the way up. I do like the pack though. Figuring out how it all worked and packing it was a bit overwhelming but Wendy helped with that as well. It's amazing how many straps there are and that they actually all serve a very useful purpose.
Wendy let me try her tent and her 3/4 Big Agnes pad. I definitely liked the tent (I think it was an Alps Mountaineering Zephyr 1) as it was big enough and lighweight. It was also easy to put up and take down. As for the pad, I think I might like the longer pad and maybe a rectangle; altho I suspect it's just a matter of getting used to the mummy shape and length more than anything. The 3/4 pad is also lighter weight. One of the ladies at our camp had a blow up pad that I think with modification was turned into a camp chair. :idea: Now that really appealed to me as logs and rocks are very hard if you sit very long

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I also got a long Kelty Lt Yr Down W's 20. It seems to fit my needs very nicely and was very comfortable.

Figuring out how to get it stuffed back into that small bag was an adventure in and of itself. The two times I re-stuffed it, it took three tries. :bdh:
I didn't get a pillow orderd in time so I rolled up my windbreaker jacket but it kept slipping away and I found that very annoying. I really do need a pillow. Kat has steered me toward a blowup pillow so I think I'll give that a try.
I got the new MSR Hyperflow Microfilter. It was terrific. I haven't tried to backflush it yet but I did find the video online and one of the people on the trip helped me get it apart as I had struggled with that when I was trying to backflush it at home.
At our camp site, everyone had various cooking stoves including alcohol stoves but most used the fuel cannister. Most brot the bagged foods so I got lots of suggestions there. The one that appealed to me most was MaryJanesFarm as the packet is biodegradable. However, it is vegetarian so I'd have to either bring some beef jerky or dehydrate some meat. Wendy made us all of our meals. She is the Rachel Ray : queen : of backpack stove cooking and SHE can sing too. Among other things, we had salmon cakes and baked potatoes, breakfast burritos and some couscous for breakfast that had dehydrated apples and cinammon... yum! She made great use of flour tortillas for our various sandwich-like meals.
I did bring too much water as we were next to a spring for gosh sake... what was I thinking

? The other thing is to have some sort of hydration system for the day that you can hike with. I did bring a liter day pack that we put at the top of my backpack. I actually hung that from a tree limb to use as my water at the campsite so that worked out well.
I did pack pretty light other than my PJs but I wanted to be warm. So now that I know the sleeping bag is plenty cozy, I can bring something lighter for sleepware. I did use all of my clothes; especially after falling in the water. There also was some other stuff I didn't use so I will leave it behind. My pack was 28 lbs coming up; we forgot to weigh it going down. Wendy's was 24lbs.
The second thing I would advise newbies is to try to find various online videos about backpacking. For whatever reason, I decided on the DAY of the backpack to see if I could find online videos about backpacking. It would have helped a little if I had done that several weeks before as there were quite a few videos.
I still have a few items to buy and some things to learn but maybe the butterflies won't be as strong next time. So thank you again for your inspiration and support. :worthy:
"tibber" (Angela)